What do people care about?

Nobody cares about the failures of others. Maybe some aunties who have chosen their life bubbles or other few small factions who constantly live in the bubbles of their limited lives care about failures of others.

Earlier one realises this fact, one can start focussing on what is important in life. Even those who think they care about your failures are more interested in your success. Everyone is obviously only interested in knowing about your successes in life.

Nobody ever asked what was your biggest failure in life. Maybe some eccentric interviewer would ask such question to someone. But the chance of someone asking such thing to you in your adult life is at best one in million. So if the failures are not something anyone is so concerned about why should oneself be worried about them at all, let be frightened of them at all.

Failures are only there to teach us what not to do or how to do something better. That’s the only task the failures serve.

Failures are like those tricky questions in the study books to keep the students on their toes. These questions are generally not answered until the chapter is completed anyways. Nobody really understand why they failed at something until they go through it.

So those who want to focus on things which really matter in their lives, stop worrying about or thinking about failing at something.

Just think about winning and the next big thing you are going to do.

Because just imagine if dying would have been like a Last supper party where you meet hundreds and hundreds of strangers who died at the same time but all are good and dandy at the party and everyone is boasting about their lives. They will be talking about their biggest baddest moments in life.

Well those are the moments we live for. So keep focused on those.

As a person who has faced lot of successes and lot of failures. I would say this, keep looking for bigger wins and keep trying to win them.

Those wins do not need to be defined by the society. Those should be wins for you. Then just let go of everything else go towards them no matter what.